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‘ ‘Could you drink pee or eat your own crap?”

It would not be good for you at all to do it. Urine and feces are le names doctors use for pee and crap, and they are what is left hen the body is done with whatever you eat and drink. It is what le body is throwing away. I guess we are kind of silly about these things, because even adults will use words for these things when they are mad. They say things like “shit” and “piss” and “assole,” when really these are just bad words for natural parts of us. When we talk like that, we really talk like we are very confused id silly. It’s important to be clean, to wash our hands after we go to the bathroom, but there is really no big deal about these parts of s if people just get more comfortable about it. See, all of you are stening and so are the grown-ups. Nobody gets all upset if we talk like we respect everything about our body.

    ”How much milk is in a woman’s breasts, and can they

hoot it across the room if they want to?”

Women’s breasts only have milk for babies just after they have had a baby and while the baby needs it. Other times, what can come out just a little sometimes is not milk like you would buy at le store. It’s not like cows who make milk all the time. They do lat because farmers make it so they can do it. And no, the milk r the fluid cannot shoot far at all. It just sort of leaks out in small mounts sometimes. We make a big deal about women’s breasts, but they are really just bigger than men’s breasts. When we get all shy or secret about something, we start to make things that are just natural sort of mysterious.

    ”What happens if you put a stick up yourself?”

You should never put anything in any part of your body that is not very, very clean. Sometimes little girls experiment by putting something in the vagina. They really shouldn’t do that, because they could get a sore or cause an infection, like when you don’t keep a cut clean. The skin inside the vagina is very, very sensitive, so it should be protected.

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I love it, I love sex. Sometimes I want sex, and sometimes I want love, and sometimes I want both, and sometimes I’d sooner ride my bike.

WIFE

Women trade sex for love and men trade love for sex. This myth has enjoyed a long and invasive reign in male/female interactions.

Although cultural factors may teach such lessons to children, causing some young girls to think they must be in love if they have had sex with some boy, there is no truth to this view. Love is not the sole prerogative of either gender. Love is a system word, a process for a unit of two.

Husbands and wives did not differ in their reports of needs for love and loving, and it is not possible to divide sex and love. Touching, feeling, holding, being, trusting, talking, stimulating, and an infinite range of human experiences is involved in all sexual interaction, but when “sexperts” perpetuate the myth of romanticized women and eroticized men, they corrupt the natural interaction between the genders.

A dangerous “sub-myth” has evolved in this association of love with women and sex with men. You may have heard the line that “rape has nothing to do with sex. It is a violent, aggressive act, a crime, and is in no way related to sex.” This statement is absurd and dangerous. While rape is a violent, aggressive crime against women and sometimes men and against all human dignity, it nonetheless involves sex and is related to corrupted love maps and the sexual maldevelopment of the rapist. To say otherwise is to fail to address the crisis of rape directly. The sexual motives and impact of rape are profound. The motives for rape relate in part to a societal view of women as covertly wanting or allowing sex only in exchange for or surrender to the work, deception, force, coercion, or effort of the male. It is as if women, from the male viewpoint, are seen as in charge, and rape is a terrible male way of circumventing the system, “taking” sex and “taking” women without the exchange of love. The motives for rape are many and always unique to the rapist and his distorted love map, but the cultural view of women as having something that men must earn or take contributes to the tragedy of rape. Until we confront and destroy this myth of women seeking only love while they parcel out sexual favors or succumb to male sexual aggression, until we teach our little boys that love and sex are one, the tragedy of rape will continue. None of us is served by separating rape from sex. We only delude ourselves about the sexual immaturity of a society that continues to abuse its men, women, and children. Sexual child abuse and rape are not crimes separate from sex, they are sex crimes, and we all suffer.

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There are basic biological and neurological differences between men and women. Dr. Roger Gorski, professor at the University of California at Los Angeles, has done work on the functional and structural differences between the male and female mammalian brain. Early gonadal steroids, hormones, are responsible for differences in our most important reproductive organ, our brain. But some difference does not have to mean great distance, and re-eroticizing the American marriage depends upon narrowing the gender gap, not just sociopolitically, but psycoerotically as well.

Dr. June Reinisch, Director of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, discusses the basic biological differences between boys and girls, but emphasizes that learning can profoundly influence the manner in which these differences are played out in daily living. Her work supports my premise that all sexuality is a system, and that, as all physicists know, everything affects everything!

Dr. Carol Nagy Jacklin studied 275 children from birth to six years of age. She visited the children and their parents repeatedly during her study and included measures of sex-steroid hormones in her work. While she found little to differentiate boys from girls early in their development, they all seemed to learn which was which quite clearly, which they were, and “how they ought to be.” I maintain that we can learn to be how we want to be as well, and that we can learn roles with each other instead of in spite of each other. Super marital sex requires role creativity and adaptability, and the following chapters will teach you about changes in the sexual interaction in your marriage that will help you develop role creativity.

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